Shane Bruce Grogan
An online Casanova who preyed on vulnerable and lonely
women he met on internet dating sites before ripping them off
has today been jailed for two years and four months.
Shane Bruce Grogan, also known as Shane Calder, went and
stayed with the women he befriended online, before stealing
from them and taking off without warning.
He spent more than two weeks with a Rotorua woman last
It was a short "intense" relationship, Christchurch District
Court heard today, in which he promised marriage.
But one morning, she woke up and he was gone, having stolen
her $300 car, her cellphone, and eftpos card which he used to
The 46-year-old Christchurch labourer then went and stayed
with a woman in Palmerston North last November.
Again, he proposed to her, before breaking her heart and
taking off with a PlayStation, cellphone, tobacco and $120.
And on January 6 this year, at Waimate, he took 14 rings and
a laptop valued at $10,000 from a third victim.
Police issued a plea for help in tracking Grogan down earlier
this year and arrested him at a Christchurch mall after a
tip-off from a member of the public.
At Christchurch District Court he earlier pleaded guilty to
six charges of theft, unlawfully taking a motor vehicle,
using a document for pecuniary advantage, and breach of a
Defence counsel Ruth Buddicom said Grogan had been lonely and
depressed during this period while he had been estranged from
She claimed he regretted his actions and was genuinely
Victim impact statements revealed a "severe" emotional toll,
the court heard.
But while Ms Buddicom agreed they made for "quite harrowing
reading", she claimed the statements needed to be put into
context, in that meeting up with strangers the women had met
online was "a very risky process".
Judge Tony Couch countered: "But that could be what lonely
vulnerable people do."
The judge described the offending as "repeated cynical
exploitation of vulnerable women".
One of the victim told how she had experienced tough times
before Grogan came along where he treated her so well.
"It was amazing to have someone looking after me and
considering my needs," the woman wrote in a victim impact
"After he stole from me, I learned it was all a lie. It's
been very upsetting and distressing for me."
She told of feeling foolish, hurt and angry, and now doubts
whether she could ever trust a man enough to enter into
another relationship in the future.
In jailing him for two years, four months and ordering him to
repay $1800 in reparation, Judge Couch told Grogan in the
dock: "You have hurt these women very badly."