Opposites more likely to divorce: Study

Madonna, 50, divorced Guy Ritchie, ten years her junior, in 2008. Photos by AP.
Madonna, 50, divorced Guy Ritchie, ten years her junior, in 2008. Photos by AP.
Opposites attract or so the saying goes. But a new study suggests this may not be the key to a long-lasting marriage.

Academics from the Australian National University tracked the relationships and characteristics of nearly 2500 couples between 2001 and 2007.

They found the factors that increased the likelihood of marriage breakdown included differences in age, desire for children, work, alcohol and smoking.

Divorce was twice as likely for couples in which the husband was nine or more years older than his wife.

And the same risk applied in marriages in which the man was two or more years younger than his wife.

Couples were twice as likely to split if the wife had a much stronger preference for children or for more of them.

Smoking and drinking rates also contributed to relationship breakdown.

Relationships in which one person smoked and the other did not were between 75 and 90 per cent more likely to end than those of non-smoking couples.

It was a similar story if the wife was a heavier drinker than her husband.


People whose parents were divorced were more likely to call it quits, so too were those who had children born before the marriage.

Couples in which both people had been previously married had a 90 per cent higher chance of splitting than those marrying for the first time.

Unemployment and or perceived financial stress of the husband, but not the wife, also played a role.

Factors that were not important included country of birth, religious background and education levels.

As well as the number and age of children, a woman's employment status and years in paid employment did not play a role.

The What's love got to do with it? study estimates that a quarter of relationships will end within six years and 50 per cent by 25 years.

Dr Rebecca Kippen, Professor Bruce Chapman and Dr Peng Yu will present their findings at a Melbourne conference this week.

 

 

Opposites can work

Our marriage has been full-on 36 years+. 16 year age gap. American - Kiwi. Medical man - artist. Drinker - non drinker. Smoker - non smoker. One out-going other reticent. Quaker - Catholic. 6 children from a previous marriage one child from this marriage all in excellent positions. Yay! Opposites we say.

Opposites more likely to divorce?

Well, I think that we are on the other end of the spectrum. Opposites are also likely to make a successful marriage too. You see, we are 12 years and 6 months in age different, we are black and white, we were smoker and non-smoker, I brought 2 children into the marriage, today 31 years into our marriage, we were very broke financially, we are still delighted to be involved and the children are a doctor and an IT specialist.

I can't really say what kept us together because we have had some trying times. I just wanted to comment on this study because I too have noticed many marriages that have gone astray much too early, too easily and for what seem to be small things.

The subjects of this study has all been very logical, perhaps a look at the emotions in the persons involved next time. Thanks.

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