Pornography is not a private issue

What we do in the privacy of our room defines character, argues Bob McCoskrie. Further, the media should show the same level of indignation towards their promotion of the pornography industry as they have towards Shane Jones.

In response to the viewing choices of Labour MP Shane Jones in his hotel room, both Labour leader Phil Goff and deputy leader Annette King said that what their MPs did in the privacy of their room was none of their business.

While we always hope that our private attitudes and actions do not receive the same scrutiny as our public and outward appearance and words, they can not be separated, because they define character. What we do in private manifests itself in the quality of our integrity, morality and leadership in the public domain.

Watching a movie containing bestiality or necrophilia, having an extra-marital affair, getting drunk and passing out, or purchasing the services of a prostitute can also happen in the privacy of our room and are completely legal. But are they right?

It is significant that while National MP Tim Groser has maintained his current status in parliament despite raiding the mini bar - in the privacy of his room - there has been a furore over Mr Jones' purchase of porn in his room.

It's ironic, because the media have attacked the issue of porn viewing while turning a blind eye to the fact that they themselves have marketed, broadcast, promoted, and peddled the pornography industry for years. Broadcasting standards is an oxymoron in this country.

The indignation being shown towards Mr Jones needs to be redirected towards the increased availability and exposure of pornography not just in hotel rooms but on free-to-air television, radio, billboards, in print, and when and where children can be exposed to it.

It's everywhere, and that must change. And the media should show the same level of indignation towards their promotion of the pornography industry as they have towards Mr Jones.

The public's uneasiness with a politician purchasing blue movies is part of an overriding public stigma - and a healthy one at that - against pornography.

Dogmatic prejudices

I'm struggling to understand what the point of this article is. From what I can understand Mr McCroskrie is employing some sort of broad Patricia Bartlett-like brush to encapsulate his objection to pornography. Thus this seems to be an outlet for his outdated prejudices more than anything else. Too many times he blurs the issues of violence and sexuality in his complaints, issues which have vastly different manifestations.

The laughable 'study' by Family First of shows between 6-8:30 pm found what exactly? It could be argued that the study found that the messages contained within these shows (Deal or No Deal? Customs? Friends?) represent popular culture - as recent history of TV in NZ shows state, TV is as much a reflection of who we are as a society than anything else. At worst they illustrate the cultural dominance foreign television has over us.
I am sick of people like McCroskrie telling me what is and isn't 'normal' behaviour. This outdated conservatism fuelled by religious dogma has no place in a modern tollerent and caring society. I could quote studies back at him, as to who the actual users of pornography are, and I could tell you now they will be vastly different than who he thinks users of pornography are.

Reading this diatribe reminds me of the confused language bandied about durning the Homosexual Law Reform Bill introduction in the 1980s - full of alarmist conservatism.  As a person who is not offended by titillation, but somewhat annoyed by the level of and acts of violence represented on the screen, I object to his implication that the two go hand in hand.

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Pornography is not a private issue

Well said. I agree that the media have a lot to answer for. My children often have to watch the news on TV as part of their school work. It's pitiful and shameful that both TV One & TV3 blatantly advertise adult only material during this period. We wouldn't accept our schools showing these kind of promos to our children - why is is acceptable to subject them to it in their home?
There's a reason that 'adult' programming is set for after 8.30. The media should stick to it, and we, the public should demand that the broadcasting standards are met - not just sit back and think someone else is going to do it.
Well done Family First.