One of my favourite quotes is: "Love does not consist in
gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the
same direction."
In many sports there have been great partnerships involving
players who have both had their eyes on the prize.
In rugby there was the Stu Wilson/Bernie Fraser partnership,
as well as the Frank Bunce/Walter Little duet.
Twins Georgina and Caroline Evers-Swindell had the ultimate
partnership in rowing, which led them to two Olympic gold
medals, numerous world regatta wins and New Zealand's
athletes of the decade honour at the recent Halberg Awards.
These arrangements can also work well between coaches and
players (Lydiard and Snell, Taumaunu and Muir), between team
owners and coaches (Herbert and Serepisos), between athlete
and support person (Tiger Woods and Steve Williams) and
between man and beast (Mark Todd and Charisma).
Recently, the Black Caps have struggled to find an effective
batting partnership, which showed when they lost the third
one-dayer against Australia in the Chappell-Hadlee series on
Tuesday night.
Australia, on the other hand, had the Ponting-Haddin
partnership, worth 151 runs, which led to a comfortable
six-wicket win.
The partnerships I've mentioned so far generally comprised
sporting soulmates who brought out the best in each other.
As sport progresses in this post-modern, fame-hungry
environment, partnerships that are destructive, controversial
and have nothing to do with sporting performance are also on
the rise.
It's testament to the mental toughness of the Australians
that they won despite the media furore created when their
vice-captain, Michael Clarke, went walkabout.
It turns out Clarke went back across the ditch to save his
damsel in distress, fiancee Lara Bingle.
Bingle, a swimsuit model who has on occasion posed topless
(with her consent), is famous for the "Where the bloody hell
are ya?" line in an Australian tourism advertisement, so it
is no wonder Clarke came running when he was beckoned - she's
gorgeous and persuasive.
The saga involving nude photos of her in the shower being
distributed by her ex-partner, AFL player Brendan Fevola, is
a complex one.
On one hand it must be devastating to know that photos you
didn't consent to are being circulated to millions, but
Bingle's desire for attention and fame has left many feeling
less than sympathetic to her plight, especially when she
cries wolf one minute then dines with the wolf the next.
And what about Clarke's reaction to her plight? Many consider
his actions sacrilege - professionally, because cricket is
his job, and personally, because it is very rare to put your
female partners before your brothers in team sport.
The ultimate Wag tends to be someone who looks good but
understands that sport is your first love, so doesn't demand
attention in season.
Clarke is on the verge of greatness in cricket but he is also
smitten (and whipped, perhaps?), which could be detrimental
to his career in the long term.
Bingle and Clarke are the Beckhams of Australia.
For now, it looks as though Clarke is willing to sacrifice
his cricket career for Bingle in a bikini.
Love for them consists in gazing at each other and gazing in
the same direction, toward momentary fame and fortune.
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