Aaron Cruden
Aaron Cruden has ensured the loved ones that nursed him
back from a near-death experience will witness the highlight of
his life so far as a professional rugby player.
While his teammates will fill an important supporting role
when Cruden makes his first start in the All Black's No 10
jersey, against the Wallabies in Sydney on Saturday, friends
and family will also be close at hand.
Cruden's parents Stu and Missy, his girlfriend Grace King,
and an array of relatives will be captivated by Cruden's
progress as Dan Carter's replacement.
"I'm pretty fortunate I've got as lot of family coming over
for the occasion," Cruden said.
They were at his bedside after he was diagnosed with
testicular cancer in August 2008, staying steadfast as
chemotherapy ravaged the now 21-year-old's body.
And fittingly, they will be in the stands at ANZ Stadium.
"When I was ill in hospital, the support of my family and
friends .... even if I was in a foul mood due to the drugs,
they'd always be there giving me support," he said.
"Reflecting on it now, it really meant a lot to me, they got
me through the tough times."
The third Bledisloe Cup match of the season marks the
continuation of Cruden's rehabilitation to a top flight rugby
player.
Once the cancer was eradicated, Cruden returned play for
Manawatu and then the New Zealand under-20 side, a team he
captained to junior World Cup glory last year.
A Super 14 campaign for the Hurricanes was the logical
progression this year and in May he was selected in an All
Blacks squad for the first time.
Asked if he could believe the path his life had taken since
diagnosis, Cruden admitted: "I do reflect a bit, it's been a
rollercoaster over the last couple of years.
"I'm grateful to be able to sit in the position I am now.
"All New Zealand kids running around want to be an All Black
and now I'm here it's something I'll never take for granted."
Cruden said while recovery from illness was slow, it advanced
his personal development.
"I had to mature a lot quicker than I thought I'd have to,"
he said.
"It made me realise you have to do what you enjoy because you
don't know when your time's up."
In keeping with that philosophy, Cruden was not getting too
het up over his run-on debut against a Wallabies side buoyed
by a last start victory in South Africa.
"My style is I just like to get out there and play footy," he
said, echoing the free-spirited character of his Wallabies
counterpart Quade Cooper.
"There is a lot of pressure during the week but when you get
out there it's just another game, another rugby field. You
just want to go out there against the opposition and do what
you love."
Given his medical history, it is unsurprising Cruden
nominates fellow cancer survivor Lance Armstrong as the
person he would most like the meet. The Tour de France
legend's autobiography "It's Not About The Bike" is also his
favourite read.
But Cruden shifts uncomfortably when asked if he might also
be considered an inspiration for others.
"I suppose I've been told that what it's sort of like. I just
do what I do," he said.
"If I'm seen as an inspiration to people I'm quite honoured
and humbled really."
There is no doubt his parents mould his low-key demeanour. If
he has a stinker of a game against Australia, they'll let him
know it.
"More than anything I know they're there for support but they
both tell me how I've gone, they don't try and sugar coat
it."
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