Police want cheer, not fear

Southern police will attend hundreds of family violence incidents in the next few weeks as festive season stress takes its toll.

But police and other help agencies are asking offenders and victims to ask for help instead.

Southern district family violence intervention co-ordinator Senior Sergeant Kelvin Lloyd said Southern police attended 703 family violence incidents last December and January, with 301 of those in Dunedin.

This festive season police expected to attend about 11,000 family violence incidents nationally.

"There are pressures on people at this time of year.

"They can be financial, relate to relationship or child custody issues, and, of course, alcohol plays a significant part in the escalation of violence in homes," he said.

"Rather than being a time for happiness and good cheer, the reality is that this time of year is a time of immense fear for many families in our communities."

Snr Sgt Lloyd said there were practical tips that would help families to have a safe festive season. - Set aside money to cover bills in January and February.

- Don't spend more on Christmas than you can afford.

- Don't drink to excess.

- Don't drink and drive.

- If you have a child and there is a custody arrangement, come to an agreement before Christmas so the children can spend time with both of you.

- Take time out if things get heated or stressful. Go somewhere to let things calm down.

- If you have fears for your own or your children's safety, contact police immediately.