Bob McCoskrie. Photo by APN
Bob McCoskrie has resigned as a marriage celebrant
because he rejects the state definition of marriage, and says
others have done the same.
Mr McCoskrie, national director of Family First NZ, posted
the announcement on his blog.
Referring to the Marriage Amendment Bill which legalised gay
marriage, the post said the "act of cultural vandalism"
rammed through by politicians had prompted him to resign as a
state-sanctioned marriage celebrant.
He would still perform marriage ceremonies for couples, but
they would have to go to a local registry office to make the
"But it would be wrong of me - and perhaps even hypocritical
of me - to allow myself to be appointed by the state to carry
out that duty while rejecting the distorted definition that
the state has adopted," he said.
"In my view, marriage will always maintain its cultural,
natural and historical definition of the lifetime commitment
of one man one woman. The real meaning will never change."
"I'm not against anybody. I'm simply FOR the institution of
marriage which has stood the test of time - and which we
'play with' at our peril."
Mr McCoskrie said he had been "overwhelmed with support"
since announcing his decision, which was posted on his blog
on January 28, and included in a newsletter released today.
He had received only one negative response out of "lots and
lots of emails", and other celebrants had told him they had
made the same decision, he said.
He said some feared they would be breaking the law by
refusing to marry same-sex couples.
Mr McCoskrie said he had been a celebrant for two years, and
chose not to renew his registration at the end of last year.
"It's a personal decision and I'm not telling other marriage
celebrants what to do, others will have taken different
actions. That's for them and their conscience," he said.
Lobby group Family First opposed the Marriage Amendment Bill
and collected thousands of signatures on a petition
supporting the definition of marriage as between one man and
Mr McCoskrie also said allowing gay marriage would open the
door to allowing polygamous and consenting adult incest
- By Heather McCracken of APNZ