According to the United States National Crime Prevention
Council, more than 40% of all teenagers with internet access
have reported being bullied online.
Cyberbullies seek to terrorise or humiliate perceived enemies
and rivals under the cloak of anonymity, and with the
proliferation of social media tools and multiple points of
connection to the web, they have an ever-expanding array of
opportunities to achieve their goals.
This activity presents a daunting challenge to parents who
want to ensure their children's safety in today's
technology-driven communications environment.
Brad Miller, chief executive of web-monitoring software
company Awareness Technologies, offers these tips to knock it
out before it starts.
1. Start by talking with your children about their online
activities and the dangers of cyberbullying.
Set their expectations by discussing your views on monitoring
their internet and smartphone use.
2. Set up Google Alerts to monitor mentions of your
children's names on the web.
3. Friend your children on Facebook and monitor their privacy
settings so you are able to view their profile and activity.
4. In addition to Facebook, cyberbullies use other social
networking sites, such as Twitter, to post hateful messages.
Familiarise yourself with these sites and set up an account
to enable you to routinely search what others are saying
about your kids.
5. Inform teachers if you suspect your child is being
cyberbullied.
Teachers are among the first to notice important changes in
children's behaviour, and it's possible the bully may be a
classmate.
6. Consider implementing parental monitoring software on your
home computers and children's smartphones.
7. Many schools also now use computer monitoring software on
all classroom computers.
Check with your school principal, PTA or school board to
ensure these tools are in use at your child's school.
8. Prohibit your children from having multiple email
addresses, screen names and social networking accounts.
9. Prohibit your children from using geolocation tools and
apps on Facebook and smartphones.
10. Always be observant as your children use electronic
communications tools.
Changes in habits, such as frequency and timing of use, mood
swings and other indicators, could be a sign that your child
is being bullied or a target of other online mischief.
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