Children at play outside one of the three Glendining
cottages in Andersons Bay in November 1950. The cottages,
called Cameron, Nisbet and Somerville, were built in 1930
and each took 18 children, adding to the accommodation
provided by the two-storeyed Glendining Home, which had
opened in 1913. Photo by the Evening Star.
Life at Glendining Presbyterian Children's Homes in the
1940s was more a piece of bread and dripping than a bowl of
cherries, but Edith and Walter Connor are thankful for their
If they had not lived there, she might never have met her
wonderful husband, Mrs Connor (73) told the Otago Daily
"Now, you're supposed to say you have a wonderful wife," she
teases Mr Connor (78). They laugh.
The Mosgiel couple, who have five adult children, will
celebrate 54 years of marriage on Tuesday, a month before the
homes' reunion, being held at Chisholm Park in conjunction
with the Andersons Bay School 150th anniversary celebrations
at Labour Weekend.
Laughter may not have come easily to the young Edith Randall.
She was the only girl in a family of five. Her father died
when she was 4 and her mother when she was almost 9 - not
that she knew immediately of her mother's death. She thought
she was in hospital.
Following her mother's death, Edith, her twin Keith and
brother Les were sent to Glendining.
Mrs Connor remembers them arriving in an older brother's
model T Ford, all clutching little bags of lollies. When they
got to the home, she was placed in Somerville Cottage and the
boys in the main house.
They rarely saw each other after that.
Her introduction to the other girls involved walking through
their ranks while she was pelted with pillows.
"You survived that and away you went," she said.
Mrs Connor remembers being told she was the only orphan there
at that time - "and that means you have status", but she was
never quite sure what that meant.
Many of the children at the homes were from single-parent
families. Mr Connor was in that category. His mother died
from tuberculosis when he was 6.
He and five of his seven siblings eventually were sent to the
homes, but before arriving there Mr Connor spent three and
a-half years in hospital or convalescing because he had been
diagnosed with tuberculosis in his hip.
While there could be some bullying at the homes, he remembers
his time there fondly. It was exciting, like having 24
He had a leg in a calliper and was not very agile and the
wind at the Andersons Bay site (in Albion St) was so strong
it would sometimes bowl him over.
It was a frugal existence in those wartime years. It was
cold. Meals were basic. Mr Connor did not mind "drips" -
bread and dripping put in the oven which accompanied porridge
at breakfast. It was quite nice if it was crisp, he said.
Mrs Connor was not so keen and would swap her drips for bread
and jam, if she could.
The boys milked house cows and tended the vegetable gardens,
which provided fare for the children, while the girls
undertook cleaning and the older ones helped out the younger
While the Connors knew of each other while they were at the
homes, it was not until they were both grown up that the
After Walter left the home at the age of 16, he became
homesick for it and used to visit at weekends. Mrs Connor
worked at the home for a few years after she left school and
Mr Connor invited her to his 21st birthday party.
Later, he asked her for another date, but she could not make
it, so she told him if he asked her out again she would go.
That was not quite the done thing. Mr Connor told her that he
would do the asking, but Mrs Connor, who had already taken
quite a shine to young Walter, said she was just making sure
her options were covered.
Before they were married she followed him, working as a
nurse, as his career as a surgical footwear bespoke maker
took him to Nelson and Lumsden.
"I didn't have a chance," Mr Connor said joking.
Mrs Connor said she was probably more independent than a girl
from a traditional upbringing. Parents of that time might not
have allowed her to leave Dunedin.
They believe their shared experience probably made them a
The couple were sad when the homes as they knew them closed
in the 1970s.
"We used to think if anything happened to us, our children
would have somewhere to go," Mrs Connor said.
The couple are sad, too, that the reunion next month is
likely to be the last major one for the "home kids".
• Reunion organiser Peter Greenfield expected about 120 would
attend the reunion.