Spokesperson Paul said the group, established by a small number of survivors, was determined to change the conversation surrounding male trauma.
The Aoraki Men’s Group meets fortnightly, offering a confidential and understanding environment where men can connect, share their experiences and begin their journeys towards healing.
It is supported by the South Canterbury branch of Women’s Refuge and uses its rooms and facilities for its meetings.
Meetings are led by members of the group who have lived experiences of sexual abuse.
Sessions are designed to help participants share their stories, discuss their challenges and offer each other emotional and practical support in an open and non-judgemental atmosphere.
Paul said male survivors often faced unique struggles.
"I suffered in silence for many years before I spoke of my experiences of sexual abuse.
"My doctor provided me with details for an ACC sensitive claims counsellor.
"I utilised this service but there was no support group for male survivors of sexual abuse that I could find. I felt as if I was on my own," Paul said.
The group encourages members to take their time, speak when they are ready and listen when others share their experiences.
While some men attend seeking advice on how to cope, others are there simply to hear others’ stories and understand that they are not isolated in their struggles.
The group emphasises the importance of normalising conversations about male sexual abuse.
Paul said too often, men were told to "man up" or keep quiet about their emotions.
"This group helps dismantle those harmful stereotypes and creates a healthier approach to masculinity and emotional vulnerability.
"The support group is open to all men who have experienced sexual abuse, regardless of their background or the duration of time since the abuse occurred.
"Many men find that joining the group is an important first step in seeking therapy or counselling, while others feel empowered simply by connecting with others who truly understand their pain."
For more information about the group or to inquire about date and times, contact Paul at aorakimensgroup@gmail.com
Paul said healing was possible, and no-one should have to suffer in silence.
"Through this survivor-led initiative, men are finding strength in unity, breaking down the barriers of silence, and paving the way for recovery and empowerment."
— APL
